A Datsun, A Stranger and Life

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Thirty-one years ago, my family and I were camping in the Pacific Northwest. It was raining most of the weekend so it wasn’t the greatest experience for us. The ground and roads were sopping wet.

Packing up the tent and our supplies into our 1981 Datsun, my husband, 6 year old son and I left for home Sunday morning. As we drove on the road we noticed that they were a little slick. The speed limit sign showed 25 miles per hour. We were probably right at that limit.

The mountain snow was starting to melt and the creek to the left of the road was running quickly.

Suddenly, we skidded. The car rolled over on its side and half of it was on the road and half of it now lay resting on a large tree branch that protruded into the water. If it weren’t for that branch …

Being on the passenger side, the door to my side of the car was resting on the road so I was not able to get out without my husband, the driver, getting out. We unbuckled ourselves and looked back to make sure our son was okay. He was.

Suddenly we heard a man’s voice asking if we needed help. Yes! we screamed. He opened the driver’s side door and helped my husband out. The car rocked back and forth. We weren’t sure how stable it was lying half on the road and half over the creek. My son was then taken out and then I was helped out. With each movement, the car also moved.

Looking around, we noticed a Jeep-like vehicle that belonged to the stranger helping us. The man stated we needed to call a tow truck company to get the car out and he offered to take us to the closest house to do that. (This was before cell phones were in use.) My husband and I looked at each other and I agreed to go with the stranger. My son and I got in the man’s vehicle and we drove off.

I never thought about the danger of going off with a stranger. Being shaken by the accident, my concern was more along the lines of “Is everyone okay?”

We finally came to a house and called a tow truck. The stranger then drove us back to where my husband was waiting for us. As we waited for the tow truck, we assessed the damage to the car. We also assessed how fortunate we were not to have fallen into the quick-running creek.

When the tow truck came, they were able to get the car on the road but it was now shaped like an A (not that exaggerated though). It was driveable.

I looked to where the stranger and his vehicle were and he wasn’t there anymore. I don’t remember if we thanked him.

All of the conditions for tragedy were here – the rain, the slick road, the running creek. Instead we received all the blessings we could have asked for — immediate help, a house where someone was home, a driveable car.

Some would say we were lucky. I call this one of the miracles in my life.

I believe that even before the accident our Father in heaven arranged for our protection. The angels surrounded us and He let nothing touch us that would cause us harm.

Sometimes we go through things that we think are not beneficial for us because they cause deep pain with memories that won’t subside. But the Father is still there and He still sends His protecting angels. We don’t know why He allows some things to happen to some people and not to others. But in all the years I’ve trusted Him, He has never failed me.

So I will trust again that no matter what happens in my life or to those around me, things will be okay.

For I will restore health to you and I will heal you of your wounds. Jeremiah 30:17

I will not die but live, and will declare what the Lord has done. Psalm 118:17


 

The Collage of the Heart

On a recent trip to Seattle, I was impressed by the remarks of a young man who spoke to his fellow classmates at graduation. He stated that he was a collage made up of all the people he knew and proceeded to name each person stating what impact they had on his life. This young man was very wise for his years.

We seldom take the time to meditate on who we are and how we were/are shaped by the people around us. Each person in our life brings a small bit of themselves that helps to shape our hearts into a collage – fragments of other people.

Lilly Pads

The experiences vary – love, rejection, trust, mistrust, laughter, pain, sorrow, healing, anxiety, anticipation, temptation, hope, failure, disappointment, joy – the list goes on.

Each experience brought to my heart by people whose own hearts have been “collaged.”

I could list each person I know by name and what they have brought to my life but perhaps it’s better to let them know directly, one by one, of the piece they have helped to form my collaged heart with.

We normally focus on the good attributes of what is brought into our hearts. But I believe bad can also be good.

Negative and difficult experiences help make me stronger because I learn to bend and stretch as my heart grows in patience and perseverance. Every day I am a better person because of experiences given to me (knowingly or unknowingly) from another person’s collaged heart.

There is One who I will credit for allowing these experiences to form the collage in my heart – always interceding whether through people or through Himself directly – My Father in heaven. For He allowed all these people to be in my life. And …

  • He allowed me to experience rejection so that I may know acceptance
  • Sadness so that I may know joy
  • Death so that I may know life
  • Turmoil so that I may experience peace
  • Failure so that I may know victory
  • He taught me to lean only on Him – the Creator of my humanity.

My collaged heart is grateful today.

“And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love Him, who have been called according to His purpose.” Romans 8:28


 

 

Should We Look For Another?

When John, who was in prison, heard about the deeds of the Messiah, he sent his disciples to ask him, “Are you the one who is to come, or should we expect someone else?” Matthew 11:2, 3

Sunshine in Woodbury, MN

John shows his humanity when he sends his friends to Jesus to ask Him if he is truly the one. Even though John baptized Jesus and had knowledge of what Jesus had done, He still needed assurance that Jesus was THE one, the ONE and ONLY Messiah.

Jesus sent John’s friends back to him saying ““Go back and report to John what you hear and see: The blind receive sight, the lame walk, those who have leprosy are cleansed, the deaf hear, the dead are raised, and the good news is proclaimed to the poor.”

Actions – Jesus’ own actions are what He points to.

So often I find myself in similar predicaments. Is THIS what you want me to do or is there something else? I walk around wondering if I’m in the right place at the right time or if I should be some place else.

And Jesus, as He so often does, says to me as He said to John “Look around you and what do you see?” I get affirmed of my place in life by reading the Bible, prayer, friends, and the church community.

The affirmation from above can only be found if I am searching and listening for it in the right places. Then, and only then, can I know that indeed, I am at the right place at the right time.

In all thy ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct thy paths. Proverbs 3:6


 

Noah and the Ark

Richmond Beach, Seattle, WA

Lately I’ve been running into articles on Noah and the ark.

The first one is in Kentucky. The Kentucky Tourism Development Finance Authority has granted more than $40 million in tax incentives for a planned $172 million Bible-based theme park which has a full-size replica of Noah’s ark with live animals. To read that article, click here.

The second article is about a man who is in construction and has built an ark in the Netherlands (for the second time)- approximately similar size as the dimensions of the original Bible ark.

There have been many articles written about Noah’s ark with many speculators on where the ark is currently located with some stating it’s been found in Turkey.

Some people say that those who believe in God need to have physical evidence in order for their faith to be affirmed. But, if their faith is not affirmed without the ark then their faith is not really faith.

This reminds me of the story of Thomas in the book of John in the Bible. All of the disciples had seen Jesus after the resurrection except for Thomas. It was he who stated “Unless I see the nail marks in His hands and put my finger where the nails were, and put my hand into His side, I will not believe.”

Thomas is called a man who had little faith. Thomas eventually sees Jesus, puts his fingers/hand in Jesus’ hand and side and then believes. But Jesus says:

Then Jesus told him, “Because you have seen me, you have believed; blessed are those who have not seen and yet have believed.” John 20:29

If the ark is found it should help to strengthen the faith of the Christian – not establish it.

 

The Wedding

Puerto Rico Sunset

This week I read this Scripture:

“I delight greatly in the Lord; my soul rejoices in my God. For He has clothed me with garments of salvation and arrayed me in a robe of righteousness, as a bridegroom adorns his head like a priest, and as a bride adorns herself with her jewels.”  Isaiah 61:10

It made me think of my wedding day.

I took the day off from work to go with my husband to the justice of the peace in our local town. I can’t remember if I took a vacation day or if I just called in sick. (Some would say that getting married makes you sick in the head …)

I have always been a simple person. I wore a green dress and no jewels with the exception of the gold wedding band that my husband and I exchanged. No family or friends gathered around us to witness the event. Just me and my husband. That’s really all that’s needed.

I think of the weddings that occur these days where people spends thousands of dollars on gowns, brides maid dresses, flowers, food, music, photos, etc. And a lot of those weddings end up in divorce.

I delight greatly in my Lord … God has often called us His bride as He lavishes His love upon us day after day. Sometimes, like in all marriages, we miss the moments of kindness, of gentleness, of honesty. And just like in our marriages we always have to be cognizant of what is happening so in our marriage to God.

My soul rejoices in my God …

What a pattern God gives us in our relationship with Him — doing the same in our relationship to our spouses.

Do I rejoice when my husband walks through the door? Do I delight greatly when I see him? Do I feel peace and security when I’m in his presence?

He has clothed me with garments of salvation …

Indeed – in the arms of love both husband and God have clothed me.

 

 

Jonah

I was listening to a sermon on Jonah – the man who is known for being “eaten” by a big fish. I wonder what it would be like to have known him. Here’s a guy who was asked by God to go to a city named Nineveh and let them know that they were wicked and that they needed to change their ways. Not a very friendly message to deliver.

I squirm sometimes when I hear of friends/relatives who do things wrong and I’m told “someone needs to talk to them.” Normally that means me and it isn’t God whose telling me to do the talking.

Jonah initially decided not to listen to God and went the opposite direction. It was a tall order that God was requesting. I mean, if God told me to go to St Paul or Minneapolis and let the city know that they were wicked I’d want to “reason” with God. ”

  • Uh, are you sure you want me to do it?
  • What about the preacher of that church over there?
  • I really think it will be a waste of time God.
  • I don’t think they would listen to me – I’m just a woman.
  • Don’t you want someone prettier?
  • Don’t you want someone smarter?

We’re not told that Jonah tried to “reason” with God – only that he “ran away from God.” Well, I guess if that works …

But Jonah was not gone for long. He was given an assignment and even if he felt unqualified to do it, God asked him to do it.

God even gave Jonah a second chance to witness for Him. On the ship that Jonah got on (to get far far away from God and His assignment), a big storm came up which Jonah slept through until woken up by the other sailors. It’s interesting that the story tells us that the other sailors asked Jonah “How can you sleep? Get up and call on your god! Maybe he will take notice of us so that we will not perish.”

But Jonah missed his chance again. Ahh well, Jonah is thrown into the sea, the storm calms down and he gets swallowed by a big fish.

Lots of time to think in the belly of a big fish. Sometimes God has to use extraordinary measures to get us to pay attention. Is reliance on God really so hard that we have to run away from Him?

I feel for Jonah. I’ve run from God too. Feelings of inadequacy in what He wants me to do or not do make me cringe. He may see the potential in me but if I don’t see it I question His leading. And then I’m afraid – afraid that I’ll mess up – afraid of embarrassing myself.

The wrong words or expressions — if only God could just give me the manual and robotically make me do what He wants done. I’ve often asked that of Him but He has said no every single time.

It takes awhile for me to remember how special He thinks I am — how special He thinks we all are.

Jonah — I’m so glad He got his act together in time to do what God asked.

As a child, I can remember being asked to close my eyes and jump into the arms of someone. It was scary at first. But then I learned to trust them and every time I jumped I would giggle.

So – I’ll jump and giggle knowing that God will always catch me.

To read the whole story, click here.

 

 

Time to Take A Break

 

It’s time to take a break from all the busyness a new house brings with it. From unpacking boxes, laundry, re-cleaning dishes to trying to figure out where everything goes. It’s just about time for Sabbath and I am thankful.

Now my mind can re-group and focus on one thing — my relationship with God. It’s not always an easy thing to do this turning the mind off from everything else and focusing on God. I’ve learned that when my brain tries to focus on something else, I simply write it down – then it’s easy to forget it for the day. My personality is such that it doesn’t want to forget anything.

Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding … Proverbs 3:5

I’ll do my best to not lean on my own understanding — an almost insurmountable task, but for the grace of God.

 

 

Teacup Storms

On occasion, I receive spam in my Blog comments. You can usually tell what is spam as the comments that are associated with them don’t make any sense.

In one of my previous blogs on Natural Remedies, I received a comment that said “A Storm in a Teacup.” Hmmm … it wasn’t relevant to what I said so I dismissed it as spam.

However, the thought intrigued me. A storm in a teacup. Sometimes that’s what life feels like. We go round and round circling and really not getting anywhere. Friends get sick and die, people lose their jobs, alcohol or drugs destroy relationships — round and round, every human on this earth is impacted for good or for bad.

The world can seem hopeless sometimes but I have to keep my eyes looking up.

A friend of mine recently passed away. She was very dear to me and befriended my family many years ago. In talking with her husband this week who is distraught and grieving deeply, he told me “she’s buried in a $200 pink nightie that our daughter gave her for Christmas one year along with a matching robe.”

She always looked good in pink.

To lighten the moment, I said to him “well then, at the 2nd coming we’ll have to look for pink in the clouds so we can spot her.” We both laughed.

I’m glad I have the hope of the 2nd coming. Teacup storms don’t bother me as much.

After that, we who are still alive and are left will be caught up together with them in the clouds to meet the Lord in the air. And so we will be with the Lord forever. 1 Thessalonians 4:17

 

What About God?

With all the moving from Seattle to Woodbury to Lake Elmo, it’s been a little hectic.

“What about God?” someone asked. Well, He moved with me. I can’t remember a time in my life where I have not felt His presence. There were a few times in my life where He didn’t answer my questions (so I thought) as quickly a I wanted Him to or in the way I thought He should.

And when I complained, He just shrugged it off. It’s a special relationship — one comes to realize that sometimes silence is an answer so we have to move on in life.

The “pray without ceasing” as found in 1 Thessalonians 5:17 has been one of the “things” I cling to. Always thinking and talking — God.

 

Now I’ll Lay Me Down to Sleep

Tired – yet sleep eludes me. The past month has taken a toll on my emotional state of being. A bittersweet weekend just whisked by with no end in sight of the roller coaster ride I seem to be on.

Every small problem seems to want to latch on to me as a barnacle clings to the side of a water thrashed log. Each one slowly clinging and not budging. Yet I keep trying to pick them off one by one.

From sickness to houses that we can’t seem to close on because of problems they have — each one adds it’s own dimension to an ever increasing sense of anxiety.

Get it out! That’s what I feel like screaming to the dentist who put a crown in my mouth that feels like a glob of sticky goo that leaks – goo that attaches itself to my tongue giving me the feeling of having eaten popcorn and never getting all the kernels out.

Seal the deal on that house! I shout to no one in particular as we find yet another house with a septic problem that may delay us moving into a house by a month.

My shoulders and neck feel the ongoing stress of each continuing day looking for a little respite.

As if there wasn’t enough to overwhelm me, a friend dies. A good friend. She suffered a long time and became more and more reclusive as the illness caused her more and more pain. She leaves behind a husband — 56 years married I wonder how he will feel walking around his large house – alone. Looking this way and that – every picture hung on the wall will remind him of his artist wife who painted each one. Now she’s gone – in the grave until the second coming of Christ awakes her to a place where there is no more pain or suffering or loneliness or separation.

I continue clinging to Father. There is no one who knows me better than He does. As the night gets darker and my eyelids get heavy, He will be the one who eventually tucks me in. Amidst the tossing and turning I still have the assurance that He is in control.

Houses will be bought, pains will be relieved, friends will console – eventually.

I shudder when I think of those who can’t or won’t allow Father to tuck them in when they can’t sleep. The assurance I have of His love and His care for me is embedded in me like a computer chip that shall never be removed.

And now I’ll lay me down to sleep. On a sofa, alone and with a coat laid on me, I will find respite in Father’s arms of love.