New House

Although we took possession of our house this past Friday, we stayed at a hotel over the weekend to de-stress from moving from the apartment into the house and running around to close on the house.

Yesterday, we changed the locks on the front door as well as the garage side door. Then I started cleaning the kitchen cabinets and putting drawer liners in.  Although the sellers left the house fairly clean, I noticed that there were a few places where they didn’t do too good of a job.

For instance, the very top shelves were not clean nor were the under-sides of each shelf.  And the lazy susan wasn’t very clean either on the inside.  A lot of comet did the trick.

Lazy Susan

I bought two different kinds of drawer liners – one more difficult to install than the other. Neither are like contact paper in that they don’t have adhesive underneath.

The first one is prettier and is called Grip Prints. It has a nice texture and a simple design to it.

 

Grip Prints Drawer Liners

However, this one was a little harder to install as when I cut the paper with scissors, it would always cut crooked so the first couple of liners in the drawer are crooked. What I wound up doing is setting the paper inside the drawer and rolling it to the edge where I wanted it to go.

Then, I would take a pen and mark the place where it needed to be cut along the edge of the drawer. The paper seemed to be crooked but this actually worked to get the right size in the drawer.

Once I started cutting it this way, everything fit perfectly.

The second liner I used is called Grip Ultra Drawer Liner. It has more of a foamy feel to it but it cuts well. Just measure the length and width you need and cut away.

 

Grip Ultra Drawer Liner

I got both of these at Bed Bath & Beyond.  Almost finished with the lining part of my work, at least in the kitchen. I still have bathrooms to do.

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Our New House in Lake Elmo

We finally signed the papers for the new house in Lake Elmo. We almost didn’t close because the relocation company hadn’t signed their HUD settlement paperwork. That’s a piece of paper that tells everyone how much they owe and what credits they have.

Most of the things in our apartment have already been moved over to the new house. Tomorrow we return the apartment keys.

Here are some pictures of the new house. It needs painting to match our taste better but we don’t need to do it right away.

Driveway to the house
The House
The Entryway - to the left is the living/dining room
The Kitchen
The Screened-in Porch
The Screened-in Porch has skylights
The Door to the Deck from the Screened-in Porch

 

The Family Room off of the Kitchen
The Master Bedroom has 2 huge closets
Balcony off of the master bedroom
View from the master bedroom balcony

We were quite surprised to see that we had a lake view as it was not mentioned anywhere. We’ll be trimming a few trees to get more of the lake view.

Main floor guest room

It’s a little odd that the guest room is tiled to match the tiles in the main floor bathroom. Across from the guest room is a two-person shower – again, another surprise as we hadn’t noticed it when we first viewed the house.

A tree house for the young at heart
View from the side looking towards the deck/screened-in porch
The sellers left us champagne with 2 glasses

We’ll have to christen the house with this champagne much as one would christen a boat.

We also have deeded access to a lake. It’s a small area but it’s sandy so one can go and sit, swim or take a canoe out in the lake. Or — one could fish.

Now we wait for our furniture to arrive from Seattle in 10 days or so.

 

Lake Elmo House Update

Tomorrow is the day we sign on the dotted line for the Lake Elmo house. Well, assuming that everything goes well at the walk-through.

A walk-through is when you go to the house you’re going to buy and check to make sure everything is still there just like it was when you first walked through the house and fell in love with it. Sometimes, sellers take things they aren’t supposed to — like washers, dryers, appliances, etc. even though they agreed to leave it there.

After the walk-through, you go to the title company and sign closing papers. You hand over a lot of money for the house or your lender does and you have a mortgage. Then you sign a bunch of paperwork and get keys for the house. The house is then yours.

One thing that a lot of people don’t think about is changing the locks on the house when they move in. This is important to do because the previous owners may have given keys out to friends or family.

So – one of the first things I’ll have done is to have the locks changed (assuming all goes as planned and we actually have a house tomorrow).

Today was spent cleaning the 2 bedroom, 2 bathroom apartment that we have rented for the last 5 1/2 months. Everything has to be clean in order for us to get our deposit back. Things such as:

  • Tubs
  • Toilets
  • Tile
  • Floors
  • Vacuuming all carpet
  • Window blinds
  • Stovetop and oven
  • Refrigerator
  • All cabinets inside and out

I’m sure there’s more. I’m very tired. This is the 2nd time in 6 months that I’ve had to clean everything in the place we lived – first a house, now an apartment.

My next large project will be cleaning the new house.

 

 

Lake Elmo House

We received the bids from the contractors who will be installing the new septic system after we move into the new house in Lake Elmo. The seller kept telling us that no trees would be affected but both contractors said there is the possibility that trees will be affected.

One contractor said that as far down the road as 5-10 years, it is possible the trees affected may die or have stunted growth. The bushes in the area where the new drain field is going to be may not come back for 5-6 years.

Taking all of that into consideration, we decided to ask for the higher amount of the bids to do the work and 50% more to be put in escrow in case something comes up during the actual work after we close on the house.

The sellers said no. The relocation company can’t have anything in escrow and the sellers are not willing to put additional money towards work that may or may not be necessary. So, we told them we would cancel the contract.

There are unforeseen things that can go wrong with installation of a septic.

Minutes later, our agent told us they would be willing to pay 25% more instead of the 50% more. We went ahead and agreed to that.

This house has its difficulties. Besides the septic, unlicensed work was done by the seller and we have no way of going into walls and checking that the plumbing and electrical he did is to code. Many owners do work on their houses. But, the messy condition of the house also made it difficult for our inspector to look at certain areas.

So, we aren’t willing to take on more risk.

But – things seem to be flowing again. We still do not have a clear title, an inspection addendum that they should have signed and then the walkthrough on Friday morning. We’re hoping they have all the window screens in place so we don’t have to put them up to check to make sure they are working and in good condition. And, originally the sellers wanted to take the washer and dryer with them but we negotiated keeping that so hopefully those are there too.

We sign papers after we walk through the house on Friday morning. If all goes well, we should have keys in hand by 1:00. If not, the house hunting process will start all over again.

 

Lake Elmo house

Another glitch in the process of buying a house. Seems that the house has to have a septic tank and draining field moved. After discussion, we’ve decided to continue in the process. After we buy the house, we need to have a new septic system installed — the design and bids are already in hand.

We’ve been told that the trees on the property will not be affected but I don’t know how anyone can predict the mood of trees once they are disturbed so we are requesting that extra money be set aside in escrow for that potentiality.

 

 

The Classic at the Preserve Apartment

When we arrived at the apartment Sunday evening from a weekeend trip to Fargo, a letter had been placed under our door by the apartment caretaker.

The letter said “Routine Maintenance/Spring Time Pest Inspection” and informed us of our inspection time Monday between 1 pm and 3 pm.

The receipt of this letter is interesting because earlier in the year, the apartment complex gave us a “Resident Handbook” which explicitly states that we are responsible for any “pests” in our apartment.

Monday morning, I heard the caretaker of our building vacuuming the halls. I peeked outside my door and called to her. She came over and I asked her if the whole building was having a spring inspection. She said no. Only our apartment, the one above, the one next to it and the one on the third floor above the 2nd floor apartment was going to have an inspection.

Hmmmm … interesting.  She then informed me that the reason for the inspection is to check for bed bugs as the caretaker who lives above me has found some in her apartment. The caretaker who lives above me then showed up in the hallway. (Two caretakers live in the building I’m in.) She then came over and told me that the apartment complex wanted to charge her $2500 to fumigate her apartment four times. She has done everything she could and has thrown out beds, sofas, etc. She is scheduled to move to a different building the end of this month.

I found it rather interesting that the letter made no mention of bed bugs but only of a routine maintenance.  Having worked in property management, I’d never heard of such a thing.

So — I called the office and spoke with one of the leasing agents there. This particular woman has always been very nice to me but lately there is tension since they have forced us to leave then turned around and begged us to stay.

Me: I received a letter for routine maintenance/pest inspection and I’d like to cancel the appointment.

She: Oh, I don’t know anything about it. (Speaks to someone in background) Oh yes, there is an appointment scheduled for you today.

Me: I know, I’m calling to cancel it.

She: There’s an appointment scheduled for today.

Me: I know, I’m calling to cancel it. (Did she not hear me I wonder?)

She: (muffled sounds as she speaks to someone else) Well we scheduled the appointment for today. It’s this afternoon.

Me: And I’m calling to cancel the appointment. (Am I audibly speaking I wonder?)

She: When are you moving?

Me: (Really? They don’t know that? They’ve threatened eviction and they don’t know that?) I’m moving Friday.

She: Oh – okay, well, we’ll cancel the appointment.

At 1:00 pm, the time that the inspection was supposed to start, I hear a knock on the door. Opening the door, I find a young man with the name of a pest company on his shirt. He tells me he knows we canceled our appointment but that he’s checking for bed bugs in the apartment above me. “Have you had any bites on your body?” he asks.  No, I respond.

He thanks me and goes away.

I hear nothing else until 9:00 pm when there’s another knock on the door. The caretaker who lives next door to me wants to let me know that she overheard people speaking in the office that the inspection company will be back out today.

I thank her as she has been very helpful while I’ve lived here.

It’s too bad — too bad that the apartment complex treats people, both tenants and employees, the way they do.

 

Rain and Mosquitoes

The wind moves the clouds swiftly through the sky as the rain pummels down on my car. I haven’t seen this “type” of rain in a long time.

Minnesota has given us many sunny days for which we have been thankful. But with the rain comes the promise of budding trees, daffodils, crocuses and green grass. The terrain already looks different from when we first arrived in November. The snow is now a memory — although they are talking about the possibility of snow for tomorrow morning.

It is definitely spring. Even mosquitoes have ventured out already enjoying the feast of nectar (males and females) or blood (females). Females must have blood in order to produce eggs and are attracted by the chemicals in human perspiration.  Adults live for 4-6 weeks.

The dragonfly is a natural enemy of the mosquito. Since we’ll be moving into a house that has a treed lot and is near a lake, I’m thinking of perhaps becoming friends with the dragonfly — assuming they don’t have their own quirky habits.

 

Now I’ll Lay Me Down to Sleep

Tired – yet sleep eludes me. The past month has taken a toll on my emotional state of being. A bittersweet weekend just whisked by with no end in sight of the roller coaster ride I seem to be on.

Every small problem seems to want to latch on to me as a barnacle clings to the side of a water thrashed log. Each one slowly clinging and not budging. Yet I keep trying to pick them off one by one.

From sickness to houses that we can’t seem to close on because of problems they have — each one adds it’s own dimension to an ever increasing sense of anxiety.

Get it out! That’s what I feel like screaming to the dentist who put a crown in my mouth that feels like a glob of sticky goo that leaks – goo that attaches itself to my tongue giving me the feeling of having eaten popcorn and never getting all the kernels out.

Seal the deal on that house! I shout to no one in particular as we find yet another house with a septic problem that may delay us moving into a house by a month.

My shoulders and neck feel the ongoing stress of each continuing day looking for a little respite.

As if there wasn’t enough to overwhelm me, a friend dies. A good friend. She suffered a long time and became more and more reclusive as the illness caused her more and more pain. She leaves behind a husband — 56 years married I wonder how he will feel walking around his large house – alone. Looking this way and that – every picture hung on the wall will remind him of his artist wife who painted each one. Now she’s gone – in the grave until the second coming of Christ awakes her to a place where there is no more pain or suffering or loneliness or separation.

I continue clinging to Father. There is no one who knows me better than He does. As the night gets darker and my eyelids get heavy, He will be the one who eventually tucks me in. Amidst the tossing and turning I still have the assurance that He is in control.

Houses will be bought, pains will be relieved, friends will console – eventually.

I shudder when I think of those who can’t or won’t allow Father to tuck them in when they can’t sleep. The assurance I have of His love and His care for me is embedded in me like a computer chip that shall never be removed.

And now I’ll lay me down to sleep. On a sofa, alone and with a coat laid on me, I will find respite in Father’s arms of love.

 

Joseph and The Coat of Many Colors

Woodbury, Minnesota Sunrise

Now Israel loved Joseph more than all his children, because he was the son of his old age: and he made him a coat of many colours.” Genesis 37:3

What father does not want to bestow love on his children?  Jacob though went a little overboard showing more devotion to one of his children at the expense of the others. So, there was a lot of jealousy going on in this family.

And Joseph had dreams that he shared with his family. Dreams that showed his family bowing down to him which made his brothers more angry.

Yet Jacob made a special coat for Joseph. And Joseph wore it proudly.

One day, Joseph went to check on his brothers in the field wearing his beautiful coat of many colors that his father had given to him. As his brothers saw him coming, the jealousy they had for their brother (and perhaps their father’s devotion) drove them to sell Joseph to a group of travelers.

And they stripped Joseph of his robe, doused it in blood, took it back to their father and said “Is this the coat you gave to your son?” It sounds surreal. How could any child could go to their parent and knowingly make them believe that one of their children has been killed?

Not only that — Jacob went into mourning and his children could not console him.  Did they really think they’d be able to?

Some of the most goriest stories I’ve read have been found in the Bible. I ask myself — why? And the answer is simple.  Perhaps too simple.

For me, it’s all about being human. We all go through basic emotions. Fear, sorrow, anger, disgust, joy, etc. No one was born a robot. All of these emotions are stirred up inside of us by something or someone. And we all have different reactions.

I’m not saying that I would sell or kill my sister if my mother decided to give her a beautiful scarf and gave me nothing.

Dynamics in families are so unique.

But one little misstep, one cherished thought kept and repeated over and over in one’s head can lead to a lot of horrible things.

I’m thankful we don’t have a Bible full of stories of people who are only good because that would not be reality. I’m thankful that the stories show some extremes in bad behavior.

And that, in spite of all this, God is able to love us. All we have to do is return that love to Him.

Oh – the rest of the story … Joseph’s family did have to bow down to him just like his dreams predicted due to a famine in the land and the position that he eventually held. To read the rest of the story, click here and read Chapters 39-46

Thank God for some good endings!