Grandchildren

A visit with the grandchildren last week was quite delightful. Aged 3 1/2, 2 1/2 and 3 months they all have their own personality that made me smile.

The oldest, a boy, likes to sit, read and play interactive games on my iPad. He is being potty trained and has to be reminded to go to the bathroom. One morning, he came to the family room in his pajamas shortly after he awoke. He pulled down his pajama bottoms and showed me that he had taken off his overnight diaper and put on his “big boy” underwear. He was so proud of himself and so was I.

The youngest boy has a big heart of gratefulness. He almost demands food, milk or juice and when he’s finally handed what he wants he breaks out in a smile and yells THANKS! I laughed every time he did it.

The baby, a girl, is smiling and cooing. I saw her over 3 months ago shortly after she was born and she now has her own personality. She is calm most times unless she is hungry. Her smile melted my heart over and over again.

Oh how they grow so fast!  Sleep baby sleep … tomorrow will be filled with so many learning opportunities for you.

 

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Sick

I was doing so well with not getting sick this year and then bam! A sore throat, cough (only when I talk), chest congestion and fatigue. It wouldn’t be so bad if I didn’t have the fatigue to go with it as I could still get things accomplished.

But, as is normally the case, the body wants to rest and it makes itself known. Fortunately I have no fever. My fear is always the chest congestion as I am asthmatic and in previous times colds get in my chest and then I have to make a run to the emergency room for the wonder drug called Prednisone. It helps clear things up but it also has side effects if used too much that aren’t so healthy.

So I do all the good things — eat healthy, drink lots of fluids and wait for the virus to run its course. Hopefully it will run fast!

 

 

Indian Mounds Park

With crummy weather behind and ahead of us, my husband and I decided to get out of the house, drive to the Indian Mounds Park and go for a walk. Why not join in the bleakness of the day by going to an Indian burial ground? Actually, it was quite pleasant.

The park is in St. Paul, Minnesota and has 6 Native American burial grounds with the oldest supposedly constructed 1500-2000 years ago.  All of the mounds are protected by a low fence. The park overlooks the Mississippi River and the St. Paul airport.

As we drove up, we saw a children’s playground and a picnic area. Once out of the car, we took a paved walking trail.

Mounds Park Children's Playground
Mounds Park Picnic Area
Mounds Park Walking Trail

Peek-a-boo views of the Mississippi River and the St. Paul airport can be seen although later in our walk we were able to get an unobstructed view of both of them.

St. Paul, MN airport
View of Mississippi River

As we continued on our walk, we saw an Indian? statue and a large covered shelter area that had a view of the street on the other side of the park. The area has a lot of older houses and is an “established” neighborhood. Friendly joggers greeted us as we walked past them.

Covered Shelter
Street view from Mounds Park shelter
Mounds Park Statue
House near Mounds Park

Currently there are six (6) mounds (literally) that have Indians buried beneath them. At one time there were a lot more but some of them were destroyed in the late 19th century by developers.

Native American burial mounds

Off in the distance the skyscrapers of St. Paul can be seen.

St. Paul, MN skyline

An old “airway” beacon that was built in 1929 still stands and was used to provide the city of St. Paul with air service between Chicago and St. Paul. One thing I learned is that “airway” beacons flash white-to-white while the normal airport beacons flash white-to-green. The beacon is original except for a refurbishing that was completed in 1995.

Airway Beacon

It was a goodly walk we had today. The constant rain/drizzle that we have been having makes everything look very very green and the tree trunks look dark. Guess beauty can be found just about anywhere, eh?

Trees in Mounds Park, St. Paul

(To read more about the history of these burial grounds, click here for the Wiki article.)

 

Dreary

The last two days in Minnesota have been simply dreary. There is no better word for it.  We’ve had quite a few rain and thunder storms pass through.

It’s almost 4 in the afternoon and the skys are dark with huge white clouds hovering and drenching us with torrents of water.

Last evening around sundown, we had a respite from this weather. The clouds turned pinkish white and off in the distance a large patch of beautiful bright blue sky with puffy clouds interspersed in between made me say “Wow!”

I wish I had taken my camera with me to snap a picture but since I was on the highway picture-taking wouldn’t have been practical. Not to mention that my new camera had a mishap that will force me to look for another camera — again.

I usually like to iron on days like today but it’s Sabbath and my back and neck feel achy so it’s time for a much needed nap. Hopefully when I awake the weather will have taken another respite from its dreariness.

 

It’s Not You It’s Me

The phrase “it’s not you, it’s me” is used a LOT by people who are going to end a relationship with another person. In this type of relationship, the meaning is ambiguous and frustrates the “you” person. It basically means “I don’t want to have a discussion about my feelings or what I feel caused our relationship to fall apart.” It leaves the “you” person feeling helpless as there is nothing they can do or say as they don’t know what the problem is.

That’s the human to human side of it. And as some would unfortunately say … it is what it is.

Today, while driving home, I was thinking about the many times that I say or do something wrong and how my actions reflect poorly on the relationship I have with God.

Lifting my head to speak with Him, I audibly said “It’s not you, it’s me.” It struck me how ironic this phrase was in this instance. Everything I do has an influence for good or bad — whether they are thoughts or actions as thoughts lead to actions. And it’s never something that God did wrong but rather my reaction or lack of reaction to something.

Yet God doesn’t change. My reactions, like a spring season, fluctuate — warm and sunny or drenching with rain. But God is constant.

Yet God doesn’t sever relationships with His people but He does allow them to sever their relationship with Him. And whether they choose to walk away because of lack of interest, lack of familiarity, lack of … well, you name it. He allows them to walk away.

But from God’s lips we will never hear the words “It’s not you, it’s me” because He will never desert anyone who chooses to be safe under His care.

“Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the Lord your God goes with you; He will never leave you nor forsake you.” Deuteronomy 31:6

 

Asking Why

When asking “why” to God, He sometimes throws questions right back at us …

“Where were you when I laid the earth’s foundation?
Tell me, if you understand.
Who marked off its dimensions? Surely you know!
Who stretched a measuring line across it?

 On what were its footings set,
or who laid its cornerstone —
while the morning stars sang together
and all the angels shouted for joy?”  Job 38:4-7

Some of the deep questions God asks really have no answers — at least not on this earth. Yet we ask “why” of so many things but especially when things go wrong. In the book of Job, Job thinks he knows the answers but in reality he has no clue. Sometimes things happen and we fail to see any good in it because we have tunnel vision.

“Can you bind the chains of the Pleiades?
Can you loosen Orion’s belt?
Can you bring forth the constellations in their seasons
or lead out the bear with its cubs?

Do you know the laws of the heavens?
Can you set up God’s dominion over the earth?

Can you raise your voice to the clouds
and cover yourself with a flood of water?
Do you send the lightning bolts on their way?
Do they report to you, ‘Here we are’?

Who gives the ibis wisdom
or gives the rooster understanding?
Who has the wisdom to count the clouds?
Who can tip over the water jars of the heavens
when the dust becomes hard
and the clods of earth stick together?”  Job 38:31-38

Yeah. Sometimes it just doesn’t pay to ask “why” but accept what is and keep on living.

Deer Prevention

On a recent stroll through our neighborhood I saw an unusual sight.

Deer Prevention

As I passed the neighbor who was working in this yard, I couldn’t help but go back and ask him “What are you doing?” The discs hanging from ropes around his garden looked, well, unusual.

The neighbor promptly explained that deer have been feeding in his yard for quite awhile and he was tired of it. “Deer are creatures of habit so they will continue to come back to places where they have found something to munch on.” He also explained that deer don’t like to look at their reflections so earlier he had set up posts, hung rope and attached CD’s to them. So far, he has had success keeping deer out of his backyard so now he was trying the same thing in the front yard.

It does look unusual and reminds me of the Fremont neighborhood in Seattle although there I was never surprised by any oddity because it was a usual occurrence. But in Minnesota the people tend to be more, well, normal.

Every day we have deer who walk through our property at dawn and dusk. One time I saw them in my front yard looking for young plants to eat. When I flailed my arms and sternly told them to go away I was greeted with blank faces. Only when I went stepped towards them and made my physical presence more obvious did they choose to run away.

I have tried deer repellant on my plants and bushes but every time it rains it seems like I have to do it all over again. So … this may be another solution.

I guess I’ll be considered one of the “odd” neighbors now but at least I won’t be alone.

 

McCormick & Schmicks

On a recent trip to Minneapolis to see the Minnesota Orchestra, we had dinner at McCormick & Schmicks. The restaurant is an easy walk from the Orchestra Hall, we got seated immediately and the food was good.

When you first enter the restaurant, the doors you enter look quite impressive with the leaded glass. You might think that you need to dress up but lots of people were in jeans.

McCormick & Schmick's
McCormick & Schmick's Entry

It is a bit noisy though. I’m not sure if it’s because the ceilings are high and the noise bounces back to the floor but if you’re looking for a quiet romantic evening this probably isn’t the place to go to. Although — they do have rooms that close with curtains so perhaps those rooms would be more intimate.

My husband had the Palm Beach Mahi Mahi that came with crab potato hash and sweet corn bisque. He said it was “pretty good.”

Palm Beach Mahi Mahi

I decided to try the Salmon over Pasta that came with a Spinach & Vegetable Orzo and Sundried Tomato Pesto. It was okay. The orzo was greasy and the salmon didn’t taste any better than the one I had made at home that week.

Salmon over Pasta

It wasn’t bad but I guess my expectation was that it should taste better than what I make at home. Is that an unrealistic expectation?

Overall, the dinner was good and its a good place to eat before heading to a concert.

 

 

The Popcorn Dilemma

It’s pretty weird to have a popcorn dilemma but that’s exactly what I was having. Perhaps my brain wasn’t working as well as it should but I just couldn’t figure out what was going on and was ready to call or email the Jolly Time company for help.

And so it was around the noontime hour that I again placed an individual sized bag of Jolly Time popcorn in the microwave with the same results — a burned bag, burnt popcorn and lots of unpopped kernels.

Burnt Popcorn
Burnt Jolly Time Bag
Unpopped Kernels of Popcorn

It wouldn’t have been so irritating to me except that I had made this my routine lunch — popcorn, a few nuts and a fruit drink. Well, okay — I can already see the irony in all this — nutty and fruity.  (laughing)

I thought perhaps the problem was popping the kernels too long so I used varying times all to no avail. Having gone through a couple of boxes of popcorn now, I decided to wait a day or two to allow myself time to become less irritated.

By the second day I noticed the problem. Could it be?

Microwave Metal Rack

One of the unusual things I noticed when we moved into our house a year ago was that there was a metal rack in the microwave. Normally metal is not supposed to be used in a microwave but this one is specially made for this purpose. I had been setting my popcorn bag directly on the metal rack which was burning the bag, making a hole and thus burning the popcorn. The solution? Placing a small plate under the bag.

Unbelievable! After all the consternation the solution turned out to be quite simple.

Trivial? Not really. We all have little things in life that irritate us and sometimes we just need to put them off to the side, give ourselves “a moment,” and then return to (hopefully) see things in a new light.

I believe God allows us to hit our head on the post a few times before tapping us on the shoulder and saying “How about taking a break?” Miraculously a lot of solutions appear and the small and simple things in life resolve themselves in a more gentle manner.

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Fargo to Twin Cities

Sometimes driving can become boring, so on a recent trip to the Twin Cities from Fargo, my husband and I decided to take a different route than the usual I94 (Interstate 94).

And so it was that we came across Interstate 10. The route is about 10 miles longer and 30 minutes more to drive but it was well worth it.  We did have to slow down as we went through small towns but most of the time the speed limit, currently at 65, went anywhere from 35 – 55 mph and only for a very short period of time. In addition, there were fewer trucks and traffic which made for a very pleasant drive.

There is one rest area on the way in the town of Frazee which is about 1 hour from Fargo. The rest area is on the left (instead of the right) and was very clean. My husband noticed that the benches (including the picnic tables) were made of granite or perhaps quartz. I wonder how much it cost to put those in as granite can be very expensive.

Frazee Rest Area
Frazee Rest Area Bench
Frazee Picnic Tables

The drive was very scenic with rolling hills and the Burlington Northern and Santa Fe Railway (BNSF) track following the route of the highway. I hadn’t realized that the BNSF is owned by Berkshire Hathaway. Just an interesting tidbit …

Yes, this drive back to the Twin Cities was less stressful than if we had driven back on Interstate 94.