I’ve always wanted to think back and remember having a boyfriend who carved our initials into a tree.

The thought is nice but it’s not reality. I did have a boyfriend who had our initials carved into a locket. I still have the locket. I’m not sure why I’ve kept it all these years as there are many sad memories that go with it. At the time, they didn’t seem sad. One’s perspective as a young person is quite different than as an adult.
A song by Chris Rice called My Tree compares a lover who carves his love’s initials into a tree with the carving that Christ did on His tree – the tree at Calvary. There is no better love than Christ. He doesn’t have an ounce of selfishness in His heart and only wants what’s best for us.
Why is that so hard for us to grasp?
Lyrics to the song My Tree
On a hill far away stands a tall mighty tree
 Where a boy and girl used to take turns pushing the tire swing
 I remember the pocketknife in hand and her name in my heart
Thinkin’ there ain’t no way for a boy to contain
 the love that he feels inside
 So I carved her name into my tree
 Then I carved a heart around her name
 Then I carved an arrow through the heart just to say “I love you”
On a hill far away stood an old rugged cross
 the emblem of suffering and shame 
I remember the nails through my hands and your name in my heart
How in their wordless way the nails explain
 the love that I feel inside
 As they carved your name into my tree
 Where I wrapped my heart around your name
 Then I took your arrow through my heart
 Just to say, “I love you”
 Just to say, “I love you”
 Now I can never forget how much you mean to me
 ‘Cause I will always remember whenever I see
 Where I carved your name into my tree
 Where I wrapped my heart around your name
 Then I took your arrow through my heart
 Just to say, “I love you”
 Just to say, “I love you”
 I really love you.
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